I'd hope I wouldn't be expensive. I always pay for and buying everything myself. Guys have only ever bought something for me because they either insist or pay behind my back. -__-
I would see how that would be annoying. I hope the world of dating is changing now.
Still though, as I've said up there I've had guys practically force me to let them pay for stuff. Dunno what's up with that if they hate it so much.
Not always. Pretty much the only time I ever ask my boyfriend to buy me anything is when I'm craving donuts and he's on his way home from work. haha
Other than that we each pay for whatever we do.
When I was with my ex, he payed for movies, and payed everything when we bought food at the store for random date days. Then he sold a few of his prized possessions so he could by me something expensive. I felt so bad for that. I felt bad because I never payed for anything, it was always him. He never mentioned me paying for anything either.. so I just let it go.
The only thing a bf should pay for consistenly are dates... And 1) dates don't always have to be expensive.. Picnics are aweswome 2) it's not like u go out every night and 3) girls: you're a disgrace to women if u can't hold your own financially, phsically, and mentally with or without a man!
we don't always get a choice in the matter. My ex always had to pay for eveything everything despite my insitence and the fact that I have a well paying job and he was unemployed. and we may be expensive but it's worth it.
In my opinion: whoever asks should pay. After establishing a relationship, you should go dutch. Unless, of course, one of you makes way more than the other. My ex earned twice what I do, so he paid more often than I did.
This is stupid. The only girls who are way too expensive are girls who ask for too much and expect the guy to pay. I would hate for a guy to pay for me. I would much rather split the bill or pay for my own meal and him do the same. The only other time where he would be spending money is if it was Christmas or my birthday, and that is only if he wanted to. And I would definitely give him a gift on those days as well.
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I'd hope I wouldn't be expensive. I always pay for and buying everything myself. Guys have only ever bought something for me because they either insist or pay behind my back. -__-
says Your_Girl_Here on Sep 9th '10 (#551500)
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@551500 (Your_Girl_Here):
Yeah but most girls like, you need to buy dinner, movies, gas, gifts. its not worth it unless you actually like them a lot
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@551512 (EnriqueTheDino):
I would see how that would be annoying. I hope the world of dating is changing now.
Still though, as I've said up there I've had guys practically force me to let them pay for stuff. Dunno what's up with that if they hate it so much.
says Your_Girl_Here on Sep 9th '10 (#551517)
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@551517 (Your_Girl_Here):
well like, your a good gf to have, choose to pay and all that. props to you
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The only people that are going to say No Way are girls.
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Not all girls insist on making their boyfriends pay for their stuff you know...
says Anonymous on Dec 13th '10 (#859949)
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@859949 (Anonymous):
But if the guy has her pay everyhting his friends or her friends usually get pretty upset
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@859957 (EnriqueTheDino):
If the guy has her pay for ANYTHING his or her friends usually get pretty upset
says Anonymous on Dec 13th '10 (#859964)
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My boyfriend and I always split the bill. Personally, I'd rather let him save his money and pay for everything myself, but he insists.
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Not always. Pretty much the only time I ever ask my boyfriend to buy me anything is when I'm craving donuts and he's on his way home from work. haha
Other than that we each pay for whatever we do.
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@860011 (Linds):
@860011 (Linds): Take note of the "no matter how much girls argue it" part. then you can comment again
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@860029 (EnriqueTheDino):
I saw that part before I commented, we were just saying that your post isn't always exactly right
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I make girls pay for me.........jk haha, but I know this kid that does that. I'd feel like a dick if I was him :/
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and that's why i love having a boyfriend
says Anonymous on Dec 13th '10 (#860044)
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I always insist on paying at least half. It's not fair to make the guy pay for everything.
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@860055 (Retooser):
Please tell me what the second half of this post is
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@860084 (EnriqueTheDino):
What?
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When I was with my ex, he payed for movies, and payed everything when we bought food at the store for random date days. Then he sold a few of his prized possessions so he could by me something expensive. I felt so bad for that. I felt bad because I never payed for anything, it was always him. He never mentioned me paying for anything either.. so I just let it go.
says Anonymous on Dec 13th '10 (#860071)
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@860071 (Anonymous):
Well thats good, you were a good gf saving his moneys
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its polite for the guy to pay for the girl, and we'll do it. just don't take advantage of it.
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Male pride makes you do stupid things...
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I thought slavery was outlawed already >:(
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My boyfriend's never spent a dime on me. I tend to always have to pay for everything. -___-
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The only thing a bf should pay for consistenly are dates... And 1) dates don't always have to be expensive.. Picnics are aweswome 2) it's not like u go out every night and 3) girls: you're a disgrace to women if u can't hold your own financially, phsically, and mentally with or without a man!
says thatsjustmii on Dec 13th '10 (#860325)
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My boyfriend never lets me pay for him, and insists on paying for me. But if i have the money i pay for myself.
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I love how every single girl on this site says "well, I never let my boyfriend pay for things" yet every girl in my high school say otherwise.
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we don't always get a choice in the matter. My ex always had to pay for eveything everything despite my insitence and the fact that I have a well paying job and he was unemployed. and we may be expensive but it's worth it.
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It is true, girlfriends are so darn expensive. I am not complaining though, it is the polite thing to do and I love her.
says morris_glr on Dec 13th '10 (#860493)
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In my opinion: whoever asks should pay. After establishing a relationship, you should go dutch. Unless, of course, one of you makes way more than the other. My ex earned twice what I do, so he paid more often than I did.
says Anonymous on Dec 13th '10 (#860506)
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This is stupid. The only girls who are way too expensive are girls who ask for too much and expect the guy to pay. I would hate for a guy to pay for me. I would much rather split the bill or pay for my own meal and him do the same. The only other time where he would be spending money is if it was Christmas or my birthday, and that is only if he wanted to. And I would definitely give him a gift on those days as well.
says Anonymous on Dec 13th '10 (#860819)
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@860819 (Anonymous):
READ. THE. SECOND. PART. OF. THE. POST.
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